Relationships are not easy. They are not meant for the faint
hearted. It’s only the strong who survive the storms or the
temptations that come along.
A city man has shocked many after he revealed that he
forgave his wife for cheating on him with one of his friends. According to the
man, he loves his wife so much and he has never cheated on her for the
three years they’ve been together. He is the few heaven sent men who don’t have
a roving eye.
Read his story below;
“Three Years Ago, I Married My Wife. I Really Love Her So
Much. I Can Boldly Say I’ve Never Cheated On Her Before. We Have A Baby Boy And
I’m So Happy He Is A Wonderful Blessing To Me. Early Last Year, I Found Out My
Wife Cheated On Me With One Of Her Friends. This Really Hurt Me So Bad And
Though I’ve Forgiven Her, I Can’t Forget.
She normally travels for assignments which I know of and it
can take her a week to two weeks before coming back. We have no issues. Great
sex, great spending and she affirms all these and more.
I Really Do Trust Her The Highest
Anyone Can Get But Ever Since I Got To Know She Could Cheat, I’ve Been So Heart
Broken. Yes, She Apologized But The Truthful Ones Will Know An Apology Is Never
Enough. What If She Apologized Because She Got Caught And Became Extra Careful
In Hiding It? What If She Still Cheats? What If Anytime She Travels She Still
Sees The Guy? I’ve Got A Lot In My Head.
It’s One Thing To Get Cheated On
In Dating And Courtship But It’s A Different Ball Game In Marriage. What Do I
Do? I Can’t Think Straight. This Is Someone I Respected So Much And Brags
About.
I Could Remember She Usually Say If There Is No Trust Marriage Won’t Last. But I Trusted Her And She Took Me For A Moron. I Don’t Really Get It. You Want To Be Trusted, Now You’re Trusted But Behind You Misbehave. What’s The Logic? Help A Brother”, He Wrote.
I Could Remember She Usually Say If There Is No Trust Marriage Won’t Last. But I Trusted Her And She Took Me For A Moron. I Don’t Really Get It. You Want To Be Trusted, Now You’re Trusted But Behind You Misbehave. What’s The Logic? Help A Brother”, He Wrote.
Here are the comments
Enos: I’m sorry bro, but
once a cheat…., u know the rest.
Lynn: These are the kind
of guys we pray for yet we get f**kboys keep coming around
Brian: Forgiving is
remembering without anger.
Kaka: Betrayal of trust
is the most difficult things to forgive and anyone just telling you to forgive
and forget hasn’t been in that shoe before. Lastly don’t retaliate, cos karma
mite not spare you as easy as someone else. Just calm down, you will heal with
time.
Ken: God forgives and
forgets your sins. Who are you not to forgive and forget her sins. It’s hard
but with the love of God and man. Give her a second chance
Clvy: Only
God’s grace can make you to forgive and forget. Keep praying for the grace to
live in the present moment and not worry about what if she cheats.. it’s really
hard to regain trust once lost.
Sandra: You need grace to
forgive totally and forget too. Pray for that Grace. Secondly, remember that
Christ has forgiven all your sins and if He was to hold it against you,it would
be greater than her cheating. Remember that part of the Bible that says “forgive
our sins as we forgive those who have sinned against us”
Cece: This is quite
painful, but truly all we can advice is forgive n forget, but I also know it
can b the most difficult thing. If u believe she’s willing to make things right
then please join effort with her to enjoy a successful marriage. But here’s the
bitter truth, if u know u can’t get over it, don’t wait till it gets worse. B.
Cos hidden grudges can never yield anything good, its d major cause of domestic
violence, high blood pressure n so many things that reduces one’s life span, so
I advice u seek a marriage councilor to walk u through this part of your both
lives.
