Marriage is not easy. It involves a lot of sacrifices. In
short, it’s meant for the faint hearted.
A married Kenyan woman has left tongues wobbling after she
confessed that she still dates her high school boyfriend behind her husband’s
back.
“MY LOVE FOR MY HUSBAND CAN’T BE
COMPARED TO THE LOVE I GIVE MY BOYFRIEND. THE AFFAIR WITH MY BOYFRIEND IS JUST
A CONTINUATION OF WHAT WE STARTED WHEN WE WERE KIDS.
I CAN JUST SAY WE ARE FOND OF
EACH OTHER. I LIKE HIM AS A FRIEND AND HE SUPPORTS ME EMOTIONALLY WHEN MY
HUSBAND IS DETACHED.”
According to this woman, her husband, the father of her two
children is not fulfilling his duties as a husband and also he has no time
for his family especially when they’re financially down.
“IF WE HAVE FINANCIAL PROBLEMS,
MY MAN IS NEVER IN THE MOOD. HE GETS EXCITED ONLY WHEN THINGS ARE GOING
SMOOTHLY,” SHE SAYS.
“WHEN PROBLEMS ARISE, HE BLOCKS
ME OUT, DENIES ME SEX AND FAILS TO SUPPORT ME EMOTIONALLY. HE IS PRESENT
PHYSICALLY BUT ABSENT EMOTIONALLY.
AT SUCH TIMES, I TURN TO MY
BOYFRIEND, WHO IS ALSO MARRIED, FOR EMOTIONAL SUPPORT. WE MEET, HAVE SEX, TALK
AND DISCUSS ISSUES BEFORE I GO BACK HOME.”
The mother of two revealed that on average, she has sex with
her husband twice a month but when it comes to her mpango wa kando who
is a bedroom bully, they have sex up to four times in a month.
