A lady called Maina Kageni during the morning show, where
she confessed how she became unattractive to her husband shortly after
conceiving. She went ahead and narrated how it all started.
The lady was
married to that man and had a child, later the man insisted that he needed a
baby boy and fortunately the lady conceived.
Before she went for maternity leave, she was employed. She
said that she used to support her husband by all means to keep his business
booming.
During the four months leave, she lost her job. That was the
turning point of everything.
The husband said to her that she was no longer attractive to
him. She was not yet healed from the CS operation and that was the most
difficult time of her life.
She went ahead and narrated that her husband had a side chic
who one day he took for a retreat and the wife was aware.
When she finally got another job, the husband changed again
and was sorry for what he had told her earlier.
The lady is still living with the man and when asked by
Maina Kageni if she still loves him, she hesitated and said she doesn’t though
she can not just walk out.
“Women need to strategize things” she added.
Mwalimu asked her if she is seeing someone else and here is
what she said, “I can not move from one problem to another. Things will be the
same. I would rather just survive”
Another caller who was also a lady confessed to living in a
loveless marriage for 38 years.
Listen to the whole conversation below: