It’s always the dream of
every woman to have that Prince Charming in her life. But ladies, did you know
that not all these men who come your way are angels/saints? Some of them are
agents of Satan sent from hell to destroy your life.
In short, am asking, “Do you really vet the men who come
into your life?”
Well, what women should know is that not every man you’ll meet is heaven sent, some are just thirsty mafisis who want to waste your time.
Well, what women should know is that not every man you’ll meet is heaven sent, some are just thirsty mafisis who want to waste your time.
Well, here is how to tell
that the man hitting on you is a FISI:
1. He is always inviting you to his house
With the many number of entertainment joints, recreational centres, hotels
and even city council benches dotted in every corner of the CBD, why would a
man invite you to his house? Dear women, if he ever asks you to visit him at
his house please run for your safety! He will start by saying,
“..HUKU KWETU MATATU HUISHA BY 8 PM, NITALALA KWA KITI WE
ULALE KWA BE..”
If he tells you such, just
know this man wants to smash you.
2. Keeps
on telling you how he loves children
He is either a single bachelor or a dead beat dad. A fisi will
tell you how he loves children and would like to have one with you yet in the
real sense its only nunu he wants.
Ladies, if you ever meet such a man, don’t entertain him.
3. He buys you more alcohol than you can finish to get
your drunk and have you
A fisi will do
anything to get a woman. He will spend on her knowing that he will get
‘something’ in return. If you ever go out with a man who buys you more alcohol
than you can drink please run for your life honey! Such men will wait
until you black out and carry you to their bed singing to some corrupted
version of Uninyunyuzie Maji song.
4. He never picks your phone call
because he is probably with someone else. He insists on calling you back
If you thought Satan was dead, wait until you meet a fisi especially
if he is handsome. These type of species will have a string of women he lies to
on a daily basis. He is always busy when you call him and would rather call
back. In case you video call him and he doesn’t pick or goes to the
bathroom to talk to for a second, my dear sister dump him like rancid porridge.
He is definitely cheating on you.
5. He is always Inviting you
for movies
If a man is always inviting you for movies just know that one
day he will demand to be paid in kind. Talk of fattening the cow before
the slaughter.
6. He always keeps on asking how
your female friends are doing even though he is hitting on you!
Chances of him sleeping with your friends are very
high. What are you still waiting for?
Dear women, if he has any of the above characteristics please
run for your safety. You can still get that God fearing, church going, faithful
man who is ready to settle down.