The art of a dirty sex talk is not for sissies because it
requires not only perfect knowledge but also the ability to apply it in
practice, and in the most erotic way. If you become a pro of dirty talking,
then your woman will be excited only by the thought that you will call her
another dirty word. A sexy dirty talk can greatly diversify your sex, or it can
become a reason why you don’t have it. So, how to talk dirty to a girl?
It’s bad, do not do that.
Before start talking about how to talk dirty, it’s necessary
to figure out with something that you shouldn’t do. Firstly, do not be too rude
and harsh. There should be a normal balance because it’s about sex and not
about the enforcer’s speech habits. Therefore, it is important not to strive
for aggression and direct insults, but to rely on the mood and sexual
preferences of the girl. Yes, it’s complicated, but it’s worth it.
Secondly, a bad game will spoil even the best words. Why?
It’s the same reason why bad actors spoil even the best screenplay, they just
do not know how to enjoy the process and do not understand what to do. So, try
to practice in front of the mirror. Do your words sound natural? Would you
believe yourself? If everything is very bad, then it’s better not even to
start.
It’s good, do that.
In general, the two tips above are the basis of what not to
do. Let’s talk about what to do, and the number of these tips exceeds because
there are lots of nuances.
The words.
You’d better understand that dirty words should be
pronounced in a way that you talk usually. Do not pretend to be Al Pacino or
Schwarzenegger, speak naturally. If the girl you met on a Single dating
site wants your voice to be somewhat different, then discuss that in
advance. No one canceled the role-playing games.
Do not overdo.
It is a bad game. Do not add extra growling and grumbling to
your dirty talk. Be natural and attentive. If you know a girl well, then you
should know when you need to be more emotional, and when, on the contrary, take
care of a girl.
Do not start at the door.
Look, if you begin to talk dirty immediately, then there
will be nothing good. You should smoothly add dirty words to your intimate
talk. A dirty talk is a kind of prelude (except when it comes to swearings
during sex), which requires, despite its aggressive form, some slowness.
Do the research.
What does she like? What kind of fantasy does she have? Does
she like, for example, BDSM? These are important questions that will help you
develop the right strategy. To get answers to all these questions, use the
imagination. You can, for example, see her profile in social networks, evaluate
the past experience of having sex with this girl, or find out what porn she
likes. In the end, you can learn everything directly, do not be a coward.
Use her imagination.
It’s time to use the accumulated knowledge about her sexual
preferences, which you have so persistently collected. Create a whole story,
play along with the girl, let her feel in her own fantasies. This should be a
story because without a plot all the dirty words will remain just swearings and
not words that lead to sex.
Add another stimulation besides dirty words.
Your hands are free when you talk. So, you can use them in
the case. And it’s not about some kind of easy or even rude caresses. It’s
about the use of a vibrator, a silk cord, a lash and other toys. If you are
going to add variety in sex, then do it to the fullest.
Listen to her answers.
Even the most depraved women have a limit, and this limit
must be seen from afar. Does the girl want to continue a dirty talk during sex
or does she look depressed and uncomfortable? If you crossed the line, it’s
never too late to return to the safe zone, apologize and continue usual sex.
