Positive
Reinforcement
If you’re the strong, silent type that’s cool but lying there in
dead silence is really disconcerting. If you don’t make any sound, she will be
self-conscious about breaking the silence. She also will have no clue if you’re
enjoying yourself or counting the minutes until it’s over. I’m not telling you to
narrate the whole time or moan loudly. (Do guys moan? Grunt? I’m going to go
with grunt). Or grunt loudly. When something feels good, make it known. Low
grunts, cussing or making declarations to God will work. Even telling her “that
feels so *expletive* good” is direct and helpful. This also benefits you in the
long run because she will make a mental note of what you vocalized as being
good and do it again in the future.
Dirty
Talk
Some girls like it some girls don’t. Most of us do. Start slow
with cussing and questioning if she likes when you do this etc. Base your dirty
talk off of her responses. If she blushes and answers with a simple yes, keep
it to a minimum. If she responds with something outrageously hot, that’s your
green light to get aggressive. I’d give you examples of what to say but then
this post would have to be censored. I trust your imagination and libido will
work together and do a sufficient job.
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feels so *expletive* good” is direct and helpful. This also benefits you in the
long run because she will make a mental note of what you vocalized as being
good and do it again in the future.
Say Her
Name
Take a cue from Michelle in American Pie and say her name. The heavy breathing,
grunting, cussing and dirty talk is awesome but to seal the deal, whisper her
name. This girl knows that this is not your first time at the rodeo. She knows
that you’ve slept with many, many girls before her. By saying her name while she’s doing something that feels
awesome, you are reassuring her that you not only enjoy what’s going on but you
enjoy it with her. It’s like personalizing your dirty talk and it will not go
unnoticed.
Give
and Ask for Directions
I know men are fully incapable of asking for directions but
please try. I do not doubt your capability for a minute and I’m sure even
without her input you could get her off but sometimes it’s hot to be asked what
we want. It’s also hot when you say exactly what you want. Instead of playing
mind reader, have her tell you where she wants you and how. Hearing her say it
out loud is going to be crazy hot.
Encouragement
for the Big O
O-faces aren’t especially pretty. Our eye brows furrow, we grit
out teeth and open our mouths super wide accompanied by some loud moaning.
Hearing you say that you like seeing and hearing that happen makes us feel more
relaxed and more willing to let go. Coax her toward orgasm by telling her how badly
you want to make her come. The hottest thing ever said to me was “No one’s home
baby, give it to me. I want to hear you scream.” Didn’t have to tell me twice.
