Not to brag, but there are quite a number of amazing and hot
girls around. These girls seem to not only appeal to the eyes, they seem to
have it all: they are gorgeous but also smart and thrive in their careers; they
have huge senses of self-worth, are witty, sarcastic, and real.
Out of all of these fabulously manicured and truly enjoyable
girls, though, there are a disturbing amount that is completely single, and
this dilemma left us at asking the question “why?”. Men are visual creatures
and there is nothing more pleasing to the eye than a beautiful girl, so what
gives!
Read on to discover our speculations on possible reasons why
these hot, smart, down to earth, and funny girls are single.
1. Men presume they’re already taken
This is a number one reason most of the hottest girls are
still single. A lot of men assume that because the girl is pretty, has an
education, makes her own money, and seems happy, she must already be taken so
they give up even before they start. They do not bother to get close to the girl
or even ask her out as they feel they would be fighting an already lost battle.
2. Society does not set the rules
Most girls are generally groomed from a young age to believe
that finding a man and having a family is the most important accomplishment in
life. As a result, there is the expectation from the society that a girl above
25 should either be married or in a serious relationship that would lead to
marriage. The thing with urban girls, though, is that they do not conform to
this dictate of the society. Most times they are occupied with so many other
things making “finding a man to spend the rest of her life with” an item not so
high on her list of to do’s. Basically, she makes her own rules and lives the
way she wants to rather than being told what is and isn’t appropriate.
3. Most men are intimidated by their confidence
Urban girls are one of the most confident girls in the
world, especially the hot ones. While the confidence can be attractive, it
tends to make the men want to run for cover. Usually, even the cockiest of men
will second guess themselves before even daring to approach a hot girl. They
get intimated and scared as they do not want to risk getting rejected.
4. The men are not as into commitment as they were
Thanks to modernization and influence from western cultures,
a majority of men, have adopted the “hook up culture”, and this now seems to
take precedence over serious relationships. It is therefore now difficult for
these girls to find commitment in a sea of men who just are not into it. Hence
they remain single.
5. Most of the girls are focused on their career and haven’t
the time to meet men
The hustle is real for not just men but women as well. Most
of the hottest girls work a lot of hours a day, including weekends as they
focused on their career and want to climb as many ladders as they can. They are
consumed with work, and coupled with the hectic traffic there is little or no
time for actual recreation , making the chances of them meeting men much
slimmer. The few who end up creating profiles on online dating sites eventually
give up as they may never get the time to meet up with their interests or when
they do, they find they have been deceived.
