Always wondered why some guys always manage to get the best
of girls? Well, the secret is not good looks or a well-defined six pack, but
the fact that women simply get attracted to certain personality traits and
flock to men who possess them.
Below are seven of these “ideal types” of guys that women
are drawn to, and an explanation as to why these guys are so appealing, reports
Fox News. The list could help you understand what women are looking for, and
most importantly, to make sure that you fit the bill.
The Intelligent One: He instigates conversations that are
intellectually stimulating, and listens to what she has to say in response. He
makes her laugh with his clever sense of humour, and has an uncanny ability to
make politics interesting. He can shoot the breeze with her for hours, and it
will never get boring.
Why He Is So Irresistible: An intellectual connection is a
big part of what sustains a relationship, and if you can show her that you’ve
got that, she’ll be hooked pretty quickly.
The Confident Guy: He is totally secure and sure of
himself. He is assertive in public, and gives off an aura of power and control.
In a relationship, he doesn’t get jealous of other men; he doesn’t feel
threatened by his girlfriend’s male friends or co-workers.
Why He Is So Irresistible: Women are attracted to
confident men. Consider this: If you think you are great, she will probably be
influenced to think the same. The confident man doesn’t seek approval from
women, and this makes them want him even more.
The Artistic Guy: The artistic guy is spontaneous and
lives for the moment. Often, he will use his creativity to woo her, such as
with a song he has written about her or a painting he has made for her.
Why He Is So Irresistible: Every woman wants to feel
unique and special. There is no better way to make her feel this way than to
use her as your muse or your source of inspiration. She is intrigued by the
artistic guy’s creative mind, and especially by the way he incorporates her
into his art.
The Exotic Element: He comes from a faraway exotic
country, and has a cute accent or a unique way of seeing the world. His social
customs, and everyday behaviour can be a little quirky, but he always manages
to come off as uniquely charming.
Why He Is So Irresistible: Women often choose this kind of
guy if they are curious about the world, but most of the appeal comes down to a
fascination with dating someone from another culture.
The Considerate Guy: He holds open her car door, and pulls
out her chair. He foots the bill for dinner, and makes sure to offer her
dessert. He always asks her out with reasonable notice, and picks her up at her
door. He is generally sensitive to how she is feeling, and when she is ready to
go home.
Why He Is So Irresistible: Once a woman has gone through her share
of the bad guy, the rude guy and the not-calling-her-back guy, she will likely
re-evaluate her priorities. It takes a bit of maturity on her part to realize
this, but eventually most girls come around and realize that they want a guy
who will treat them well in the long run.
Eternal Romantic: He believes in classic romance. He is
constantly bringing her flowers, chocolate and lighting candles during dinner.
He calls her often to let her know he is thinking about her, and looks into her
eyes and tells her how he feels.
Why He Is So Irresistible: A woman loves to feel
appreciated, and the romantic guy makes this happen. He uses romantic gestures
to show her he is thinking about her. As an added bonus, she feels free to
reciprocate and act on her own romantic tendencies.
The Free Spirit Guy (Aka The Bad Boy): The free spirit guy
goes where the wind takes him, and the wind usually takes him on some kind of
whacky adventure. He might ride a motorcycle, or he might skip work to take her
on a last-minute road trip, but this guy doesn’t worry too much about the
consequences – he just sees where his own devices take him.
Why He Is So Irresistible: Every woman wants a bit of a rebel.
She loves his carefree attitude and hopes that it will rub off on her too. The
bad boy spirit adds an element of youthfulness to the relationship, and she
loves to try taming him, although she knows she’ll never actually succeed.
